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Lost Yourself?

If you want to lose yourself rather quickly and stay in a black hole of pleasing other's,  just keep conforming. In the daily routine of life we need to adhere to rules, laws and be responsible, I get that, what does does not work is ignoring who you really are, what you really need and what truly resonates with you, and only you. Being the good girl, the good employee, the good person is great! If it comes  from the soul, the second you are doing ANYTHING out of obligation or guilt it is toxic! Toxic to your health, to your mood to your soul at the core. I believed I had to be the good girl, good kid, good daughter, wife, lover, mom etc..... until I hit a wall and never felt like I did enough, or everyone was happy and I basicly felt like shit everyday and felt like dying. How could I possibly be responsible for so many people? Who died and left me in charge? Why me? I will tell you why......because I learned that pattern and I allowed it! Poor me..... the victim, bullshi...