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From Drama to Dreams

Believing everything thing is going to be alright, is sometimes downright hard. Especially when you are bombarded with crap going wrong, unexpected bills, illness and the daily bullshit that occurs (you all know what I mean).
In the midst of every negative experience in my life I have found the blessing, the new direction, the door I thought was sealed shut, but not always did I see this reality, I was so consumed with being pissed off it blocked my vision.  You see, slowly I began to follow advice from my coach and simple changes empowered me to simply change my way of looking at things. Trust me this took time and practice, with some days of skepticism and struggle. Believe me when I say, when I changed the way I looked at things, suddenly things changed the way they looked.
Small manageable changes will bring you to a more peaceful, manageable life.

Here are some solutions to creating dreams from your drama:
  • Stop and breathe, if you lose control you can not think clearly.
  • Take a moment to remember all the good, not the bad. ( at least one thing)
  • If you do not release the old, (job, lover, spouse, toxic friend etc...) there is no room for new to be attracted to you.
  • Thank the universe for having it all. (Love, money, dream home, career etc....) before you really have anything concrete.
  • Turn a loss into an opportunity to grow and fill that space with something or someone fulfilling that brings you joy.
  • Learn to accept change, change allows new and exciting things into our lives.
  • Love the skin you are in and savor the present moment. ( there is always something to be grateful for)
Love & Light
Maria

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