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Own Your Story

My story? Do you really want to know it? Do I really want to share it? What will you think of me? Will you judge me?
Perhaps you may, but that is none of my business. My story is long and complicated, from childhood to adulthood I repeated the same lessons until I got it. A tale for my book at a later date,  trust me it is interesting, to say the least.

My story came from my soul, it is my personal truth, the very thing that created the healer I am today. When I share my story, people feel safe, supported & heard. It is a simple gift that story telling opens up your heart and shows others you survived, you healed, you did it and so can they.

Being in your power allows your truth to shine brightly, your truth may be exactly what needs to come out for you and other's. I chose to share my vulnerability as a vehicle to demonstrate strength and authenticity in my life.  My pattern had been taught to me from childhood, to hide and act like none of "it" was true, don't let anyone outside the family know your business or dirt. As I accepted myself, I accepted my story and knew that everything truly happens for a reason, good, bad or otherwise.  The trick is not to get stuck in the past negative end of your story, tell it, share it and maybe you will need a professional to help you process the pain correctly, I know I did.  And that investment in myself was the best thing I have ever done
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You see, as I processed my story, I processed emotions which I had stuffed for years, this reflected in many health issues and I felt like crap. Once the sludge came out and was gone I was able to see things in a different light, how I saw situations and people became clear, I was free.  At this point I slowly began sharing my story to help other women heal, grow and feel supported, no longer was my story of a martyr or enabler that projected a "poor me" attitude. Now I have an authentic, positive perspective with real solutions to change and feel good! We all have the special light in our soul to be free and live a life of Joy.
Tell your story with pride, heal your wounds and always remember " we all got shit!".

Love & Light
Maria




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